It is going to be hot. We want everyone to feel relaxed, effortless, and comfortable. For the welcome dinner: Something you’d wear to a long outdoor picnic on the beach - linen, cotton, sandals. For the ceremony: Yes, it's a wedding but it is still very us. Lauren will be in silk and no shoes. Sean will be in linen, a lot of gold jewellery and maybe a shirt, if we’re lucky. Dress so you are not sweating buckets and ready to dance. For the recovery: Come ready for pizza, pool time, and doing very little very well.

Your presence is the gift. Truly. If you feel moved to do something else, we’ll share more closer to the date.

We will be organising transport for the wedding weekend but in saying that we think a car in Sicily is always a great idea because it gives your freedom to explore! If you’re extending your trip and exploring more of Sicily, a car can be helpful, especially for beaches and smaller towns. But it’s completely optional.

No. Truly. Everything across the weekend is optional. Join what feels good, skip what doesn’t, rest when you need to. This is meant to feel like a holiday, not a checklist.

If you’re making a holiday of it (highly encouraged), there are plenty of beautiful options - islands, beaches, towns, and countryside. We will share a few favourites on the Details page shortly, but there’s no wrong way to do Sicily. Slow days, long lunches, swims, repeat.

It depends who you are. If you’re like Sean - totally fine. If you’re like Lauren - it can be a bit tough. The good news is the weekend is paced gently, with flexibility built in. You can dip in and out, rest when you need to, grab a nap, skip a moment - do it your way.

Yes - absolutely. We love your kids as much as you do. Just let us know when you RSVP, as we’re planning kids’ meals, babysitters / kids’ clubs for events, and a few little treats to keep them happy - and you on the dancefloor (or at the bar).

Life happens. If anything changes closer to the date, just let us know when you can and we’ll adjust. No stress.

Flights and accommodation are the main things to lock in when you can. Everything else - restaurants, beach days, wandering - will be either booked by us or you will get a welcome pack when you arrive and it can all be decided once you’re there.

Think light, easy, and unfussy. It will be warm during the day, cooler in the evenings, and we’ll spend a lot of time outdoors. Bring swimmers, sunscreen, sunglasses, and anything that helps you settle in - a book, a journal, a favourite pair of sandals.

Sean and I will be leaving after breakfast on the 28th of September, but of course you can leave earlier if you would like after the ceremony, or pool party. We are not fussed! Just the fact you're coming at all means the world to us!

Closer to the weekend, we’ll set up WhatsApp groups based on where everyone is staying and share our planners’ contact details so you can ask them anything practical. In the meantime, feel free to reach out to us directly!